Author: Yvonne Zing
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How a Chinese Mom in Germany Balances Job Hunting, Family, and Identity
“Mom, is the bunny coming soon?” “When exactly is Easter?” “Will I get a present this year?” Two days before Easter, my child was already asking with sparkly eyes and confident hope. He had one goal in mind: a cool new LEGO set. I smiled at his questions, knowing he had no idea what Easter…
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“They were afraid my child wouldn’t speak German…”
When I moved to Germany to start a life with my husband, I knew we’d be blending cultures — but I didn’t expect language to become such an emotional battlefield. As a Chinese mother raising a child in Germany, I naturally wanted to pass on Mandarin, not just as a language but as a part…
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When a Father Goes Missing Without Leaving
I came across a quote the other day. It said: “A present father brings calm to the mother, a calm mother brings safety to the child. When love flows from the father, peace settles in the home—and in that peace, a child grows whole.” The words struck me like a quiet truth I had always…
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Lost in Translation: Motherhood, Loneliness, and Finding Myself Again Abroad
I always thought raising my child abroad would be a gift—new experiences, new languages, a richer world for him to grow up in. And in many ways, it is. But there’s a part of this journey that no one really warned me about: how quietly overwhelming it can feel to be a mother, alone in…
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Dear Child, This Is Why I Speak to You in Chinese
Dear little one, Today, Mama wants to write you a letter—about the special way we speak in our family. You may have already noticed that Papa always speaks to you in German, Mama speaks to you in Chinese, and when Papa and I talk to each other, we use English. Isn’t it funny? It’s like…
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Avoiding Conflict in Front of Children: Possible or Mission Impossible?
The idea of avoiding conflict in front of our children has been on my mind for a long time. I believe it’s a common topic among parents. There are countless articles online, but none have truly resonated with me. It’s not that they aren’t good, but each family is unique, and so is each child,…
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One year from today
May 2024 Hi Myself, A year has passed, and I imagine so much has changed. How are you? I hope you’re doing well, achieving your goals, finding relief from what you missed, and enjoying your journey. Time flies, as everyone knows, and moments shape our lives not as we wish, but as they are. It…
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A Confession Letter to My Son
Dear Kaize, This letter is long overdue, my sweet boy. For years, I’ve carried this deep love for you in my heart, yet the words struggled to find their way onto paper. But today, in April 2024, with you at four years and six months old, I can no longer let this sentiment drift unspoken.…
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The Moment
‘In the eyes of the son, the mother finds the deepest love of the universe, boundless and eternal.’ Our moments began on 29.09.2019. To most, it’s merely a string of ordinary numbers, but to me, it signifies a milestone in my life. It’s the day when motherhood bestowed its extraordinary gift upon me, marking the…
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